Ok, so we've all tried to avoid drama, but it probably got into more drama. This is how to not vent, but still avoid it without getting stuck.
1. So you wanna tell your friends about your big probs, but you can't cuz well, they're a bit of a secret teller. Think about who's the most reliable in your house, Maybe dad, mom, or even your bro or sis! Just give them the main prob, and they will totally tell you wise things. I talk to my dad about my problems at school, and it works awesomely.
2. We all know that you've said something kinda mean about a friend, and that friend you told spilled the beans. Now she hates you! This is time to think about it. Before you say something a little mean, think about what will happen? Check with yourself twice before it, and so that way, you don't have to vent, but you can still say what you wanna say!
3. Drama, drama, drama! Why was it ever invented??? During lunch, your friend gives you the sign that she wants to have a little bathroom meeting. So then she starts to spill about how annoying Jessica is. "Oh my gosh, don't you think Jessica is like so annoying? What do you think?" She says, as she gives you her serious look. So then you start to wanna say yes, but then you think twice! The answer is as easy as pie. Just say, "I don't know. I think it's just because she's happy all the time. So not really." See? She's left in a what, and no rumor! Yay!!!
I hope this will help with not venting, and still avoiding!!! Byeeeee
Friday, May 14, 2010
Sunday, May 2, 2010
Having fights
Sorry people I haven't written in a long time. Homework got me caught up in everything. ugh, so let's talk about friend problems.
First, think about if your friends have had lots of major fights. Not like the ones that only take about 30 minutes to fight about, but those things where maybe she said something really hurtful, so you don't talk to her for a week. Ok, so if you have 1-2 fights like that, no need to read! 3-4, ok yes, but only if you've been friends with her for like 1 year or so. If you've have like 5-6 or more fights, you def need to read this.
For the people who always have names called:
1. Ok, so she's called you shrimp, dumb, ugly, unstylish, and more. You've had enough of this poo! It's time to talk to her. Tell her that it's not funny anymore. Tell her, "What if I said that to you? And don't say I wouldn't care, because I know you would. It's really hurting my feelings, and if you don't stop, I don't think we should be friends, because only true friends don't say those things." Or just rephrase that in any way you want. But be sure to get the facts straight. She can't keep at it. If she continues, then that just proves she isn't the best friend, or even a friend.
For people who get bullied by friends:
2. She embarrasses you more than ever, making you fall on your butt, you even have bruises and cuts all over you from her! Time to deal. Don't threaten her, because that could get YOU in trouble. Tell a responsible adult, or their teacher. Tell her that it's hurting. And after that, tell the friend that it isn't cool! It's really hurting, and show her those bruises and cuts. And if she doesn't care, than tell her that's a sign of bad friendship, and tell her maybe it's better of being just acquaintances.
Girls that just have mean friends:
You can't take it anymore! This gal has always tried to cause drama, mayhem, and more! Talk to her! Tell her that maybe all these fights aren't worth it anymore. Maybe it's time to tell her that... That maybe they are better of just friends. Not best friends, but friends.
I hope these help! Remember! Don't use these unless she's truly vicious! Think about what she's done, and if she's just done too much, and you can't take it, just use the steps! Byeeeeee
First, think about if your friends have had lots of major fights. Not like the ones that only take about 30 minutes to fight about, but those things where maybe she said something really hurtful, so you don't talk to her for a week. Ok, so if you have 1-2 fights like that, no need to read! 3-4, ok yes, but only if you've been friends with her for like 1 year or so. If you've have like 5-6 or more fights, you def need to read this.
For the people who always have names called:
1. Ok, so she's called you shrimp, dumb, ugly, unstylish, and more. You've had enough of this poo! It's time to talk to her. Tell her that it's not funny anymore. Tell her, "What if I said that to you? And don't say I wouldn't care, because I know you would. It's really hurting my feelings, and if you don't stop, I don't think we should be friends, because only true friends don't say those things." Or just rephrase that in any way you want. But be sure to get the facts straight. She can't keep at it. If she continues, then that just proves she isn't the best friend, or even a friend.
For people who get bullied by friends:
2. She embarrasses you more than ever, making you fall on your butt, you even have bruises and cuts all over you from her! Time to deal. Don't threaten her, because that could get YOU in trouble. Tell a responsible adult, or their teacher. Tell her that it's hurting. And after that, tell the friend that it isn't cool! It's really hurting, and show her those bruises and cuts. And if she doesn't care, than tell her that's a sign of bad friendship, and tell her maybe it's better of being just acquaintances.
Girls that just have mean friends:
You can't take it anymore! This gal has always tried to cause drama, mayhem, and more! Talk to her! Tell her that maybe all these fights aren't worth it anymore. Maybe it's time to tell her that... That maybe they are better of just friends. Not best friends, but friends.
I hope these help! Remember! Don't use these unless she's truly vicious! Think about what she's done, and if she's just done too much, and you can't take it, just use the steps! Byeeeeee
Friday, April 9, 2010
Shopping!!!
Here's this way i would shop. First of all, ask a friend to maybe go shopping with you! Of course, I wouldn't wanna go to the mall without my friends, and only my mom! That would be a little lonely. (Not saying you don't make good company mom! You rock!) LOL, anyways, back to what I was saying, Bring a friend! Who knows, you might even find out that shy friend is a great shopping partner! My awesome friend, Ro Ro is coming to shop with me at the mall!
1. Bring ur shopping friend over! Check what you should buy. Maybe some super cute skinny jeans, or maybe a graphic tee! Then, maybe the next day, come to her house and check her closet on what she needs in stock!
2. When at the mall, ALWAYS, and I mean always go grab 2 tees, or different jeans, And try them on. It might look terrible on you!
3. Totally thank your friend. Maybe she wasn't the best shopping partner, but totally say thanks!
I hope these shopping tips will help you!
1. Bring ur shopping friend over! Check what you should buy. Maybe some super cute skinny jeans, or maybe a graphic tee! Then, maybe the next day, come to her house and check her closet on what she needs in stock!
2. When at the mall, ALWAYS, and I mean always go grab 2 tees, or different jeans, And try them on. It might look terrible on you!
3. Totally thank your friend. Maybe she wasn't the best shopping partner, but totally say thanks!
I hope these shopping tips will help you!
Saturday, March 27, 2010
Heyyyy!!!
Hi ppls! I got a new e-mail and it's lolz.rotflol123@gmail.com. I found tht firstprincess junk was a little babyish. So yeah. That's all I wanted to say! Bye...
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
Sorry!! I can't believe in myself!
Hey guys! I know, i know, i can't beilieve I haven't posted in a long time. Well sorry!!! Anyways, I have been in deep doo doo yesterday, so I'm going to tell you how to prevent it!
1. When you come out of, "The talk," you do't tell people, "None of ur buissness." Because that will cause more drama. They'll start saying, " ______ can't trust anyone. Oh wow!" Just say, "I'm fine, it's all solved. And you don't need anything to talk about." That will leave them in aww.
2. Before, "The talk," don't go uber-crazy. Like, "OMG!! I am like sooooo scared! Why did you tell her tht!?" Be calm, try to act normal. Not the, "Whistle and walk around in a circle, or the scratch the neck," treatment. That is just TV, and it's obviously you trying to get out of stuff. Just stay calm. Listen to whoever is talking to you. Just focus on what kind of foods you like! I actually think about pancakes and bacon, and that sooo helps me! Try thinking about tht.
3. This is another thing. When they have to go some where to get the witnesses, just hum a good song, and it will just clear mind. (Not litterally! Just make you feel better!) Maybe Owl City's, "Hello Seattle," or maybe Selena Gomez's, "Tell me Something I don't know," Or something country! Taylor Swift's, " Hey stephen"? Those are all calm soothing songs. They always motivate you. Hello seattle is a techno song that is up beat and happy, Tell me somthing I don't know, is good for getting ready for the talk. And Hey Stephan is all about a person tht you feel comfortable.
Well, I hope tht helps! Thx guys. Bye!!!
1. When you come out of, "The talk," you do't tell people, "None of ur buissness." Because that will cause more drama. They'll start saying, " ______ can't trust anyone. Oh wow!" Just say, "I'm fine, it's all solved. And you don't need anything to talk about." That will leave them in aww.
2. Before, "The talk," don't go uber-crazy. Like, "OMG!! I am like sooooo scared! Why did you tell her tht!?" Be calm, try to act normal. Not the, "Whistle and walk around in a circle, or the scratch the neck," treatment. That is just TV, and it's obviously you trying to get out of stuff. Just stay calm. Listen to whoever is talking to you. Just focus on what kind of foods you like! I actually think about pancakes and bacon, and that sooo helps me! Try thinking about tht.
3. This is another thing. When they have to go some where to get the witnesses, just hum a good song, and it will just clear mind. (Not litterally! Just make you feel better!) Maybe Owl City's, "Hello Seattle," or maybe Selena Gomez's, "Tell me Something I don't know," Or something country! Taylor Swift's, " Hey stephen"? Those are all calm soothing songs. They always motivate you. Hello seattle is a techno song that is up beat and happy, Tell me somthing I don't know, is good for getting ready for the talk. And Hey Stephan is all about a person tht you feel comfortable.
Well, I hope tht helps! Thx guys. Bye!!!
Friday, February 19, 2010
I'm going soon, so posting!!!!!
Hey guys!!! I'm going in a few, so I decided to make this quick. I'm having this thing, where I can't think of what i should advice about. Ah ha!!! Beauty. This may sound freaky, but lots of girls our age actually tend to look in mirrors and such without even noticing!!! This is something weird I do, but keeps my teeth shiny clean!
This is for the yellow teeth members:
First, Brush ur teeth real good with some of ur parent's whiting tooth paste. (If they don't have any, then just use ur own, buut brush the best u have ever done before.) This will keep ur teeth looking white. But that's not all! I use mint floss!! Yes, mint. You never no what's deep in the middle of ur teeth!!! And last, Mouth wash! I got these ideas from M magazine, so thx M!!!!
This is for the hair ppl:
Ur the one who's always looking in the mirror, looking at ur hair, and reading those mags, in the article: "Hair". This is from the book: "Spa Fun". Ok, check off in ur mind which one is like u.
1) I love my hair-styling products!
2) I feel as if I have to wash my hair every day yo keep it clean.
3) My scalp feels dry and itchy.
4) My hair looks dull lately Where's the shine?
5) My hair looks oily- Even on days that I wash it.
6)I usally blow-dry my hair.
If u checked any blues, you may have build-up from hair gels or sprays. Add a teaspoon of baking soda to a tablespoon of ur favorite shampoo. The soda gets rid of gunk and leaves hair super-healthy and shiny.
If u checked any greens, your hair must be craving juice. Squeeze the juice of one orange or lemon into a tall glass of warm water. Shampoo and rince ur hair normally, and then pour on the juice. Leave on for two min, then rinse.
If u checked off any reds, try a moisterizing treat. Have an adult help u heat 2 tablespoons of olive oil in the microwave for 5 to 10 seconds, just enough to warm it up. Rub the oil through your damp hair and scalp. Wrap ur hair in a towel for 10 min, then rinse hair hair in warm water. Shampoo ur hair, and let air dry.
To keep hair healthy and happy, use these treatments only once a week. (More often can be too much of a good thing.
I coppied this all from American girls, So thx American girlz!!!! Now to the lips. We all know how hard it is to have ur lips moisterized, so I'm going to give u a tip on how:
3. I always put some nice smelling chap stick on, but everytime I leave for school, it melts away! What do I do? I put some chap stick in my pockets, so when my lips r totes dead, chap stick time! And if u want ur lips sparkly AND moisterized, then try lip gloss. And if u want ur lips colored, steal ur mom's lip stick, and try some on!!! (It never hurts to try does it???)
Well I hope that helped with beauty! Remember, need advice?
This is for the yellow teeth members:
First, Brush ur teeth real good with some of ur parent's whiting tooth paste. (If they don't have any, then just use ur own, buut brush the best u have ever done before.) This will keep ur teeth looking white. But that's not all! I use mint floss!! Yes, mint. You never no what's deep in the middle of ur teeth!!! And last, Mouth wash! I got these ideas from M magazine, so thx M!!!!
This is for the hair ppl:
Ur the one who's always looking in the mirror, looking at ur hair, and reading those mags, in the article: "Hair". This is from the book: "Spa Fun". Ok, check off in ur mind which one is like u.
1) I love my hair-styling products!
2) I feel as if I have to wash my hair every day yo keep it clean.
3) My scalp feels dry and itchy.
4) My hair looks dull lately Where's the shine?
5) My hair looks oily- Even on days that I wash it.
6)I usally blow-dry my hair.
If u checked any blues, you may have build-up from hair gels or sprays. Add a teaspoon of baking soda to a tablespoon of ur favorite shampoo. The soda gets rid of gunk and leaves hair super-healthy and shiny.
If u checked any greens, your hair must be craving juice. Squeeze the juice of one orange or lemon into a tall glass of warm water. Shampoo and rince ur hair normally, and then pour on the juice. Leave on for two min, then rinse.
If u checked off any reds, try a moisterizing treat. Have an adult help u heat 2 tablespoons of olive oil in the microwave for 5 to 10 seconds, just enough to warm it up. Rub the oil through your damp hair and scalp. Wrap ur hair in a towel for 10 min, then rinse hair hair in warm water. Shampoo ur hair, and let air dry.
To keep hair healthy and happy, use these treatments only once a week. (More often can be too much of a good thing.
I coppied this all from American girls, So thx American girlz!!!! Now to the lips. We all know how hard it is to have ur lips moisterized, so I'm going to give u a tip on how:
3. I always put some nice smelling chap stick on, but everytime I leave for school, it melts away! What do I do? I put some chap stick in my pockets, so when my lips r totes dead, chap stick time! And if u want ur lips sparkly AND moisterized, then try lip gloss. And if u want ur lips colored, steal ur mom's lip stick, and try some on!!! (It never hurts to try does it???)
Well I hope that helped with beauty! Remember, need advice?
Thursday, February 18, 2010
Now it's time...
Hey guys, I think it's time for u to help me. This is my question:
My friend keeps copying my outfits, and it's really annoying. I'm trying to keep it kewl, but when she wears the same kind of stuff, it's like oh crud, I'm going to look like an idiot. Can u guys help me??? Thx guys!!
-Miranda
Thx guys!!! Remember, any questions or comments, tell me!!!! Peace out ppl.
My friend keeps copying my outfits, and it's really annoying. I'm trying to keep it kewl, but when she wears the same kind of stuff, it's like oh crud, I'm going to look like an idiot. Can u guys help me??? Thx guys!!
-Miranda
Thx guys!!! Remember, any questions or comments, tell me!!!! Peace out ppl.
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