Friday, May 14, 2010

Drama, how to avoid, but how to not vent

Ok, so we've all tried to avoid drama, but it probably got into more drama. This is how to not vent, but still avoid it without getting stuck.

1. So you wanna tell your friends about your big probs, but you can't cuz well, they're a bit of a secret teller. Think about who's the most reliable in your house, Maybe dad, mom, or even your bro or sis! Just give them the main prob, and they will totally tell you wise things. I talk to my dad about my problems at school, and it works awesomely.

2. We all know that you've said something kinda mean about a friend, and that friend you told spilled the beans. Now she hates you! This is time to think about it. Before you say something a little mean, think about what will happen? Check with yourself twice before it, and so that way, you don't have to vent, but you can still say what you wanna say!

3. Drama, drama, drama! Why was it ever invented??? During lunch, your friend gives you the sign that she wants to have a little bathroom meeting. So then she starts to spill about how annoying Jessica is. "Oh my gosh, don't you think Jessica is like so annoying? What do you think?" She says, as she gives you her serious look. So then you start to wanna say yes, but then you think twice! The answer is as easy as pie. Just say, "I don't know. I think it's just because she's happy all the time. So not really." See? She's left in a what, and no rumor! Yay!!!

I hope this will help with not venting, and still avoiding!!! Byeeeee

Sunday, May 2, 2010

Having fights

Sorry people I haven't written in a long time. Homework got me caught up in everything. ugh, so let's talk about friend problems.

First, think about if your friends have had lots of major fights. Not like the ones that only take about 30 minutes to fight about, but those things where maybe she said something really hurtful, so you don't talk to her for a week. Ok, so if you have 1-2 fights like that, no need to read! 3-4, ok yes, but only if you've been friends with her for like 1 year or so. If you've have like 5-6 or more fights, you def need to read this.

For the people who always have names called:
1. Ok, so she's called you shrimp, dumb, ugly, unstylish, and more. You've had enough of this poo! It's time to talk to her. Tell her that it's not funny anymore. Tell her, "What if I said that to you? And don't say I wouldn't care, because I know you would. It's really hurting my feelings, and if you don't stop, I don't think we should be friends, because only true friends don't say those things." Or just rephrase that in any way you want. But be sure to get the facts straight. She can't keep at it. If she continues, then that just proves she isn't the best friend, or even a friend.

For people who get bullied by friends:
2. She embarrasses you more than ever, making you fall on your butt, you even have bruises and cuts all over you from her! Time to deal. Don't threaten her, because that could get YOU in trouble. Tell a responsible adult, or their teacher. Tell her that it's hurting. And after that, tell the friend that it isn't cool! It's really hurting, and show her those bruises and cuts. And if she doesn't care, than tell her that's a sign of bad friendship, and tell her maybe it's better of being just acquaintances.

Girls that just have mean friends:
You can't take it anymore! This gal has always tried to cause drama, mayhem, and more! Talk to her! Tell her that maybe all these fights aren't worth it anymore. Maybe it's time to tell her that... That maybe they are better of just friends. Not best friends, but friends.

I hope these help! Remember! Don't use these unless she's truly vicious! Think about what she's done, and if she's just done too much, and you can't take it, just use the steps! Byeeeeee

Friday, April 9, 2010

Shopping!!!

Here's this way i would shop. First of all, ask a friend to maybe go shopping with you! Of course, I wouldn't wanna go to the mall without my friends, and only my mom! That would be a little lonely. (Not saying you don't make good company mom! You rock!) LOL, anyways, back to what I was saying, Bring a friend! Who knows, you might even find out that shy friend is a great shopping partner! My awesome friend, Ro Ro is coming to shop with me at the mall!

1. Bring ur shopping friend over! Check what you should buy. Maybe some super cute skinny jeans, or maybe a graphic tee! Then, maybe the next day, come to her house and check her closet on what she needs in stock!

2. When at the mall, ALWAYS, and I mean always go grab 2 tees, or different jeans, And try them on. It might look terrible on you!

3. Totally thank your friend. Maybe she wasn't the best shopping partner, but totally say thanks!

I hope these shopping tips will help you!

Saturday, March 27, 2010

Heyyyy!!!

Hi ppls! I got a new e-mail and it's lolz.rotflol123@gmail.com. I found tht firstprincess junk was a little babyish. So yeah. That's all I wanted to say! Bye...

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Sorry!! I can't believe in myself!

Hey guys! I know, i know, i can't beilieve I haven't posted in a long time. Well sorry!!! Anyways, I have been in deep doo doo yesterday, so I'm going to tell you how to prevent it!



1. When you come out of, "The talk," you do't tell people, "None of ur buissness." Because that will cause more drama. They'll start saying, " ______ can't trust anyone. Oh wow!" Just say, "I'm fine, it's all solved. And you don't need anything to talk about." That will leave them in aww.



2. Before, "The talk," don't go uber-crazy. Like, "OMG!! I am like sooooo scared! Why did you tell her tht!?" Be calm, try to act normal. Not the, "Whistle and walk around in a circle, or the scratch the neck," treatment. That is just TV, and it's obviously you trying to get out of stuff. Just stay calm. Listen to whoever is talking to you. Just focus on what kind of foods you like! I actually think about pancakes and bacon, and that sooo helps me! Try thinking about tht.



3. This is another thing. When they have to go some where to get the witnesses, just hum a good song, and it will just clear mind. (Not litterally! Just make you feel better!) Maybe Owl City's, "Hello Seattle," or maybe Selena Gomez's, "Tell me Something I don't know," Or something country! Taylor Swift's, " Hey stephen"? Those are all calm soothing songs. They always motivate you. Hello seattle is a techno song that is up beat and happy, Tell me somthing I don't know, is good for getting ready for the talk. And Hey Stephan is all about a person tht you feel comfortable.

Well, I hope tht helps! Thx guys. Bye!!!

Friday, February 19, 2010

I'm going soon, so posting!!!!!

Hey guys!!! I'm going in a few, so I decided to make this quick. I'm having this thing, where I can't think of what i should advice about. Ah ha!!! Beauty. This may sound freaky, but lots of girls our age actually tend to look in mirrors and such without even noticing!!! This is something weird I do, but keeps my teeth shiny clean!

This is for the yellow teeth members:
First, Brush ur teeth real good with some of ur parent's whiting tooth paste. (If they don't have any, then just use ur own, buut brush the best u have ever done before.) This will keep ur teeth looking white. But that's not all! I use mint floss!! Yes, mint. You never no what's deep in the middle of ur teeth!!! And last, Mouth wash! I got these ideas from M magazine, so thx M!!!!

This is for the hair ppl:
Ur the one who's always looking in the mirror, looking at ur hair, and reading those mags, in the article: "Hair". This is from the book: "Spa Fun". Ok, check off in ur mind which one is like u.

1) I love my hair-styling products!

2) I feel as if I have to wash my hair every day yo keep it clean.

3) My scalp feels dry and itchy.

4) My hair looks dull lately Where's the shine?

5) My hair looks oily- Even on days that I wash it.

6)I usally blow-dry my hair.


If u checked any blues, you may have build-up from hair gels or sprays. Add a teaspoon of baking soda to a tablespoon of ur favorite shampoo. The soda gets rid of gunk and leaves hair super-healthy and shiny.

If u checked any greens, your hair must be craving juice. Squeeze the juice of one orange or lemon into a tall glass of warm water. Shampoo and rince ur hair normally, and then pour on the juice. Leave on for two min, then rinse.

If u checked off any reds, try a moisterizing treat. Have an adult help u heat 2 tablespoons of olive oil in the microwave for 5 to 10 seconds, just enough to warm it up. Rub the oil through your damp hair and scalp. Wrap ur hair in a towel for 10 min, then rinse hair hair in warm water. Shampoo ur hair, and let air dry.

To keep hair healthy and happy, use these treatments only once a week. (More often can be too much of a good thing.

I coppied this all from American girls, So thx American girlz!!!! Now to the lips. We all know how hard it is to have ur lips moisterized, so I'm going to give u a tip on how:

3. I always put some nice smelling chap stick on, but everytime I leave for school, it melts away! What do I do? I put some chap stick in my pockets, so when my lips r totes dead, chap stick time! And if u want ur lips sparkly AND moisterized, then try lip gloss. And if u want ur lips colored, steal ur mom's lip stick, and try some on!!! (It never hurts to try does it???)


Well I hope that helped with beauty! Remember, need advice?

Thursday, February 18, 2010

Now it's time...

Hey guys, I think it's time for u to help me. This is my question:

My friend keeps copying my outfits, and it's really annoying. I'm trying to keep it kewl, but when she wears the same kind of stuff, it's like oh crud, I'm going to look like an idiot. Can u guys help me??? Thx guys!!

-Miranda

Thx guys!!! Remember, any questions or comments, tell me!!!! Peace out ppl.

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Yo!!!!!

Hey guys! Sorry for not posting! I have been busy with with violin and homework. Well I'm back so ya. Today, we are going to talk about different people. (Like the popular crowd, smarty pants, normals, and class clowns.)

For the ppl who are popular or lots of ppl know u:
1. Don't be mean. Lots of ppl know u, and u want ppl to talk nice stuff about u, not mean. It's ok if ur a lil' dramatic, but no I'm the leader, u listen to me or I kill u. This isn't good. Now, we all know that u wanna be the star of ur group, but this won't happen. Try to be nice!

For the ppl who are smarties:
2. Look, u can be a lil' annoying. I'm sorry to say this. Still, don't let the name, "Loser" pull u down! 96% of the ppl who are smart in class, turn out to be the rich ppl. And those ppl who goof, they turn out to the normal ppl. So keep being that nerd!!!

For ppl who are class clowns:
Shhhh!!! In class, we all can hear u talking, cracking up jokes, and all kinds of stuff. Try not to annoy. Try to listen, and sit up instead of sleeping.

For ppl who are just normal:
Just keep it up, and keep having these little personalities, just a bit popular, lil class clown, lil smarties, and just being u. So no need to change too much.

So, I hope this helps! Bye ppls. And also, if u have any question, e-mail me, at firstprincess428@gmail.com. Or just post a comment. (Make sure when u are making a comment, make sure tp put ur e-mail at the bottom so I can e-mail the answer back!) Peace out.

Friday, February 12, 2010

Sorry...

Hey guys, and sorry that I haven't posted yesterday or whatever. Anyways, we are going to talk about birthday parties, and how to keep everyone happy, entertained, and chill.

For the ppl who are planning parties:
Ok, here's what I did for my 8th birthday, and I'll probably never do again. Putting shaving cream all over ur dad, or lil sis or bro. It was a great, probably not for my dad though! Maybe it might be funny for your sis, she'll laugh! (Or ur bro!) A popular idea is to have a pinata, but this may seem boring, since everyone does this. My parents also let me have face paint, and my dad got this funny looking apron, and cooked hot dogs and ham burgers! It was enjoyable. But then! Oh great. Everyone is bored during intermissions. Hmmm... Well this is what happens to me almost all the time. Make a schedule. I saw this in a magazine, and it said u can have a spray paint party. That sounds kewl. But not enough to cover the whole party!

For the ppl who are coming to the party:
Try to look not bored. This may hurt the birthday girl/boy, and plus, it sounds like ur going to be the party pooper! We all know how hard it is to plan everything, so you don't wanna hurt they're feelings! If it's a sleepover, then why not bring a good book? Maybe bring a flash light, and a book, and read while everyone is asleep. (You can hide in the bathroom too!) But don't ask during the party, "When is the fun going to start?" This is rude, and what if someone asked that to u!? I didn't think so.

For both the ppl:
Even though ur embarrassed because ur parents maybe because you think ur kewl at school, but ur a loser at home! Maybe ur friends think that it's kewl that ur mom can do a flip, or ur dad can twitch his eyes like crazy! Don't forget that ur frineds will like u for u, not for ur parents.

And I'm pretty sure this is it! If u have any questions, remember to e-mail me! Thx ppl I hoped that helped! Peace out!!!


Tuesday, February 9, 2010

lol, advice!!!

Hi guys! I'm going to give you some bullying advice. Now, don't go all crazy on me if there tips don't work, because you chose to follow them, not me. Now back to the advice! Let's a-go! (A little Mario for ya!)
For ppl who are bullied physically:
1. Now the bully is probably making you or your friends his/her target. Here's a good way to stop it. Tell them to stop it, or tell an adult to help you. If this person is hurting you physically, then the first thing you do is tell a adult, or tell the teacher. (This may sound like tattle tailing, but no it's not! Tattle tailing is just telling on, when they are hurting you mentally.)

For ppl who are bullied mentally:
2. Now, this is for ppl who are just being name-called, this is not really called bullied. Now, this gets very annoying, especially if it's from your friends! Sadly, this happens to everyone. Especially people who are smart! They are called nerds, loser, and get wedgies, probably not, but in TV shows. Don't try to stop being the "Nerd". Did you know that most of the people that are nerds become money makers, or get mansions? It's hard to believe but true.

For ppl that are just plain annoyed by bullies:
3. These bullies have to back off. Tell them, "I don't like that, and what if I did that to you? Would you like it?" I am sure that you have heard this kind of talk from your counselors, or parents, or whatever. But this is absolutely true. This actually might help. If your friend is annoying you, then tell them to stop. If they don't, walk away. My friend once annoyed me so much at this place called Kids club, and she started getting in my face to this song I hated it, and I said stop. She didn't, so I left. Don't you think this is annoying? Anyways, You get what I mean. I hope this helps!


Now, I hope this helped in bullies, or annoyance. Tomorrow I'm going to talk about birthday parties, and how to keep everyone entertained, and happy! I hope this really worked! Bye :D

Monday, February 8, 2010

Hi!!!!

Hi ppl... ouchies, my friend Ro just pushed me... Anyways, back to making advice! Today, we are talking about style. (Not telling what you wear though, that would be stupid.) Now, let's begin!

To the ppl who are getting copied with clothes:
1. We all know how some girls think that their friends are copying their clothes, and I guess this is a good idea to start talking about it. Don't be offended just cuz your friend is wearing the similar thing as you. Maybe she just liked your style, and I think that it's a good thing. If you like her outfit, wouldn't you try to find the closest thing to it? I think so.

To the ppl who are hated for their clothes:
2. Don't fight back if she hates your outfit. That's not any good. I have had this experience, where my friend told me that I didn't look good in this jacket. I felt bad, but I didn't yell, I just kept moving on to better things. It's not what you wear, remember that; it's whats inside. Is everyone going to hate you for your clothes? No. Your friends will like you for you. And one more thing: If they hurt your feelings, Do what I did. I said, "Maybe you should rethink your attitude, cuz I don't like that. Would you?"

To the ppl who get fashion ideas from friends:
Don't copy with clothes that much, cuz that could be considered weird. Wouldn't you? But it's fine if you have the same jeans as them, cuz maybe you didn't know. (Let's hope she doesn't yell!) If she does, then just ignore her. Don't go crying, because thats what losers do. (No offence to the losers of the world!) I think this is enough.



Now, I think this is good. If you have any more problems with fashion, then plz e-mail me at firstprincess428@gmail.com. (Remember I got it when I was 7! Don't blame me!) Anyways, ciao!

Sunday, February 7, 2010

I'm back!!!

Hey ppls!!! I'm back, cuz my friends over, and She told me to post some more awesome advice! Anyways, I'm gonna talk more about secrets, and how to keep them. (We all know this is hard, especially when it's something bad about your friend.) And I just thought about this, and if I haven't answered any of these questions, even though you haven''t even asked it! Well, I'm going to give you my e-mail. (Don't blame me that I have a really stupid e-mail address, because I got it when I was 7.) So it's firstprincess428@gmail.com. If you have Gmail, be free to chat about your problems/ questions, or my blog. Now, back to business!

1. Make sure to not tell your secrets, well because duh, then it's not a secret anymore, and plus, you might be telling it to the drama queen of the group!

2. Now this is about someone else's secrets. Be careful about what you say, because that person might hear that you told the secret, (Which has happened to me, and not good!) My dad told me this, so tell my dad thx! Anyways, Don't tell your friend's secrets either!

3. Don't yell at your friend if they tell secrets. You have probably told a secret to them, and they don't yell at you! One of my friends always yell at me for telling a secret, but I'm not naming names! Anyways, don't yell at your friends, unless its of course the drama queen!

4. Always trust your parents with secrets. Well, don't tell them your crush, or ya know ya know... Anyways, your parents won't go on and on about telling your secrets when they drop you off from school! (But I wouldn't trust my friends that much, especially if its a big one! A life changing one!!!)


That's probably enough advice about problems with secrets, soo peace!! (If you have any questions/problems with secrets or other things, please feel free and e-mail me!!) Also, I would liketo thank my friend Ro, and my dad for giving me great advice! Thx ppl for reading my advice blog!!!

Yo...

Hey guys! Anyways, I'm back with advice. My friends are asking how to comment on this thing, so I'm going to tell you! On the bottom of the post, it says 0 comments, or whatever. So click on that, and a box appears! Yay. There it is... Anyways, I'm back with more advice! Some people are having some drama problems, not naming names!!! So, I'm going to help:

1. It can be that you are causing drama because telling secrets! Secrets can be who you are crushing on, who you think is annoying or whatever, you know what I mean. Don't tell secrets! I have done this before, and it has gotten me in big doo-doo! Not good.

2. This happens alot, yelling, or even hitting! It's hard to believe that these stupid things cause drama, but it's true! I have called someone small in pre-school, and they started throwing a tantrum, and hitting me! Now you wanna yell too right? If you yell back, you both yell, and walk in separate directions. This has been seen in shows, like iCarly, and all kinds of stuff.

3. Taking sides. Taking sides are bad! Espcially since that other person is also your friend! I have taken sides, along with all the other steps, and just like always, not good. If you are going to take sides, think again! DRAMA!!! The enemies will think you hate them, and now you are a part of the battle! What I do is, walk away, but do NOT try and help. They will yell at you, (Which my friend has tried to help a battle, but they always end up yelling at her!) So, that's not any good.


I hope these steps have helped! If you have any advice questions, then go to comments, and blah blah blah! (Please put in your name! If you don't want to, then write: -Crushin' on or whatever you want really. ) bye guys :D!!!

Saturday, February 6, 2010

Hi guys!

Hi everyone, I'm going to start givin' advice, and so yeah... These are some things you should keep in mind:

1. Treat people the way you would want to be treated!

2. If someone's mean, do the debug steps. (If it's on e-mail, then change the walk away, to stops e-mailing. That should help!)

3. Don't try to start drama! Drama is something girls are born with, but that doesn't mean that you have to be like that! If your going to try to start drama, you're going to end up in it! No one likes drama, unless your a drama queen!

I hope these steps helped! I'm going to try to answer questions everyday! When you have a question, also send your name, and e-mail! I might even put your question on my posts! Come back!