Drama, how to avoid, but how to not vent

Ok, so we've all tried to avoid drama, but it probably got into more drama. This is how to not vent, but still avoid it without getting stuck.

1. So you wanna tell your friends about your big probs, but you can't cuz well, they're a bit of a secret teller. Think about who's the most reliable in your house, Maybe dad, mom, or even your bro or sis! Just give them the main prob, and they will totally tell you wise things. I talk to my dad about my problems at school, and it works awesomely.

2. We all know that you've said something kinda mean about a friend, and that friend you told spilled the beans. Now she hates you! This is time to think about it. Before you say something a little mean, think about what will happen? Check with yourself twice before it, and so that way, you don't have to vent, but you can still say what you wanna say!

3. Drama, drama, drama! Why was it ever invented??? During lunch, your friend gives you the sign that she wants to have a little bathroom meeting. So then she starts to spill about how annoying Jessica is. "Oh my gosh, don't you think Jessica is like so annoying? What do you think?" She says, as she gives you her serious look. So then you start to wanna say yes, but then you think twice! The answer is as easy as pie. Just say, "I don't know. I think it's just because she's happy all the time. So not really." See? She's left in a what, and no rumor! Yay!!!

I hope this will help with not venting, and still avoiding!!! Byeeeee

Having fights

Sorry people I haven't written in a long time. Homework got me caught up in everything. ugh, so let's talk about friend problems.

First, think about if your friends have had lots of major fights. Not like the ones that only take about 30 minutes to fight about, but those things where maybe she said something really hurtful, so you don't talk to her for a week. Ok, so if you have 1-2 fights like that, no need to read! 3-4, ok yes, but only if you've been friends with her for like 1 year or so. If you've have like 5-6 or more fights, you def need to read this.

For the people who always have names called:
1. Ok, so she's called you shrimp, dumb, ugly, unstylish, and more. You've had enough of this poo! It's time to talk to her. Tell her that it's not funny anymore. Tell her, "What if I said that to you? And don't say I wouldn't care, because I know you would. It's really hurting my feelings, and if you don't stop, I don't think we should be friends, because only true friends don't say those things." Or just rephrase that in any way you want. But be sure to get the facts straight. She can't keep at it. If she continues, then that just proves she isn't the best friend, or even a friend.

For people who get bullied by friends:
2. She embarrasses you more than ever, making you fall on your butt, you even have bruises and cuts all over you from her! Time to deal. Don't threaten her, because that could get YOU in trouble. Tell a responsible adult, or their teacher. Tell her that it's hurting. And after that, tell the friend that it isn't cool! It's really hurting, and show her those bruises and cuts. And if she doesn't care, than tell her that's a sign of bad friendship, and tell her maybe it's better of being just acquaintances.

Girls that just have mean friends:
You can't take it anymore! This gal has always tried to cause drama, mayhem, and more! Talk to her! Tell her that maybe all these fights aren't worth it anymore. Maybe it's time to tell her that... That maybe they are better of just friends. Not best friends, but friends.

I hope these help! Remember! Don't use these unless she's truly vicious! Think about what she's done, and if she's just done too much, and you can't take it, just use the steps! Byeeeeee